Olivia Kissper, MSc.

Read my story below.

My Story

I grew up in a little town of Czechoslovakia in an abusive household, anxious, angry, helpless, with nobody to trust. I was also highly sensitive so I constantly felt out of place, with the need to protect myself and hide. I felt left out and not included.

These stories carried with me. I didn’t know they were stories; I truly believed that that was something wrong with me, in the world of toxic people, lack and harsh competition.

It was so painful that I learnt how to compensate for the lack of support and trust by being a perfectionist, independent and ambitious. I spent 20 years in intense search for self-improvement and freedom. I have 2 psychology degrees, trained as a meditation and mindfulness instructor, tons of inner child healing, energy work. I took part in countless seminars, courses, years of yoga and intense meditation practices, workshops about communication, public speaking, NVC, worked with famous and infamous coaches and teachers, read over 2k spiritual and self development books. I have masters in Transpersonal Psychology and Consciousness studies focused on neuroscience, I traveled central America and participated in numerous medicine ceremonies but overall I didn’t feel any better.

It was so painful that I learnt how to compensate for the lack of support and trust by being a perfectionist, independent and ambitious. I spent 20 years in intense search for self-improvement and freedom. I have 2 psychology degrees, trained as a meditation and mindfulness instructor, tons of inner child healing, energy work. I took part in countless seminars, courses, years of yoga and intense meditation practices, workshops about communication, public speaking, NVC, worked with famous and infamous coaches and teachers, read over 2k spiritual and self development books. I have masters in Transpersonal Psychology and Consciousness studies focused on neuroscience, I traveled central America and participated in numerous medicine ceremonies but overall I didn’t feel any better.

I am the creator of Mindflix, your unique movie watched on your mind screen.

I questioned the stories of the person I perceived as true, everything I believed to be bad or leading to bad outcomes in the future. I retrieved into a jungle house in Costa Rica alone only with my dog, and spent hours every day deeply looking into painful stories, and discovering so much freedom and love it brings me to tears now when I’m writing about it. I spent several hours a day in deep looking to what was true and actual on the personal level and beyond. I inquired into all my painful stories and what I was going through could be described was the dark time of the soul. Now my sensitivity and imagination gave me a sharp access to see through my stories, assumptions, hopes, lies, expectations and hidden layers of arrogance; In other words, the hidden world that overrides the unrecognized world of completion and perfection.

I started guiding others, and their emotional pain and symptoms of trauma would not only disappear, they found the unexpected freedom they didn’t know was possible for them. I guided therapists, content creators, teachers and entrepreneurs to lose the stories that kept them in the race, search for lasting love and acceptance, competition and compensation.

 

All past hurts and failures keep us in a protection mode. All fear is about protecting some hidden fantasy and false identities we hold on to. We don’t feel the underlying fear because we found strategies to keep them at bay. On top of that, we judge others and we complain about our situation but are stuck to take action. And what’s worse, we please people and neglect ourselves, unnoticed. Living for the better future moment, just not Now. Just not this.
But there is a great cost to it; Overthinking, searching, compensating, controlling, and it is never enough.
When we have no story to protect, we are open, receptive, loving, resourceful, joyous, patient and completely free to be the way we are- in your True nature. We act effortlessly without overthinking, and hope is replaced by relaxed opens to What is and underlying trust.
And it doesn’t matter who we are with or what is the life situation.

Unless we discover for ourselves that it is never someone else or a situation that keeps us in overthinking, addictions or feeling stuck, limited or plateued, we’d chase fantasies and substitutes separated from the real abundance, love and freedom available and unrecognized

 

I mostly work with small business owners and bright sensitive introspective people who had been on the spiritual and self-development journey for some time but still feel stuck, limited, hurting, comparing, or postponing because they are not in their highest potential.

I help people relinquish their stories and let go of the symptoms of their trauma, recognizing their True effortless natural right action. I teach them systems they can use so they don’t even need me again.
Without overthinking and uncomfortable stories they already have what they want in each step on the way.

The idea of so much to do and having limited time to become our desired selves that matters in the world puts us in the ‘waiting place’. We postpone all that really matters to our unique quirky selves. We compensate. We beat around the bush. We spend time in defending the image of ourselves that keeps us in a painful story. And we simply can’t do what we want to do. We feel resigned that we will never have love and freedom in our relationships.

How do you know that you are free of the story? Only when you act, think and respond to all Life as if the painful past never happened.

Olivia Kissper

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