I worked with a high performance coach and I failed miserably.
Sam wasn’t just a high performer, she was a world class. Sam had a long history of success with 6 figure clients who’s schedules looked like a box of broken crayons with no white spaces for doing nothing. I invested most of my life savings to be coached by her to create a bulletproof strategy for my coaching business. I thought, if I work extra hard, I could achieve all my big dreams.
It was the most stressful period of my life.
After 3 months of many failed attempts to manage my time to become a highly optimized machine, I ended up with broken relationship, and existential crisis.  I gave up before we finished. I felt defeated. Ashamed.
I had been sold a dream that I needed put so much effort into being successful while following other’s ‘formulas’ and productivity techniques.
My dreams and hopes were crushed.
I was alone in Central America. I had no idea what I would do. I didn’t know where to go.
And I didn’t need to know.

I made space to look deeply into the underlying stories that kept me in the race and perfectionism. I noticed how my ambition was a compensation for the lack of belonging. How my relationship that looked so perfect on the outside, was a compensation for buried unworthiness and prof of my value.
I focused on releasing the old stories and the obligations that came with them. They kept me in endless striving and searching to be better in some not NOW future, missing some best opportunities.

My life is different now. I live in a beautiful spacious place in Costa Rica and only do what I love with a few people who inspire me. I have more love, time and abundance than I could have imagined. (and therefore I couldn’t have predicted nor visualized it).

I work with sensitive bright people who are rather introverted and thoughtful. They have been on the spiritual or self-improvement or healing path for some time but still feel the same limitations or stuckness. They are now ready to admit it and go on an inner adventure to recognize new opportunities aligned with their true purpose.

When there is no self-image to protect, our action is relaxed and effortless. With nobody to defend we are free from manipulation, overthinking and painful emotions that go unresolved. Striving and achieving perpetuates the contracted energy propelling us towards becoming somebody that matters not Now. Somebody who is worthy not Now. The person wants to matter because she doesn’t. She doesn’t exist. The ego is a belief that the voice in our head is who you are. She has a plan that is not part of what happens in actuality. 

Many of my clients are small business owners or content creators just like me. I help them to relinquish painful stories that keep them stuck, limited, overwhelmed, alone or doubtful to express their unique quirky selves in their business or projects.

My guidance in this adventure combines deep inquiry and losing limiting stories as well as recognizing unrecognized opportunities from the place of effortlessness and inspiration. Planning, strategizing, overthinking, visualizing, tweaking and trying to manifest better future comes from lack and disconnection from the Being that you are.
I will guide you to shift your identity from the disempowered role you play to the Being that you actually are to find unexpected thrill in your story. It simply changes everything.

We look together at the hidden expectations and create manipulation-proofed agreements instead. I guide them to recognize their best opportunities before jumping into new venture or relationship. And I teach them a system to turn any painful emotion to feeling free and knowing exactly what to do and say, losing doubts and taking effortless action. I hold an extremely safe loving space where they can open up effortlessly without any judgment. Each session includes presence, clearing, insight, commitment and effortless action.

We create systems that ‘save time’ and multiple forms of value in content creation.

Some stories my clients often mistake for truth: 

I lack support or money
People can’t afford my service
I am not good enough
I shouldn’t ask for too much money
I need to know what to do
People are ahead of me
I should be making more progress
I have too much to do and not enough time
Money or relationships will make me happy
I need to find my purpose
Life is difficult
People reject me and judge me
I’m too fat, too ugly or too old
I have to work hard
I shouldn’t be so sensitive or emotional
I will always be alone
There is no way out

This is not about striving, tweaking, strategizing and overthinking to tring to achieve some distant dream. This is about realizing that your business couldn’t be more perfect for you with the perfect opportunities already. Without the stories it becomes effortless.