Guidance for Sensitive, introspective and Bright Empaths. Relinquish underlying stories that keep you single and overthinking, resigned or in painful relationships. Be seen, be heard and have trusting relationship without manipulation and trying so hard.
oldlWhen we are hungry for love, connection and intimacy, we eat anything! We settle for anything and so immediately devalue ourselves. We jump into a relationship with a fantasy. We forget what it is that we truly desire. We give and give and fail to notice that our investment in the relationship is not reciprocated by the other. We feel angry, hurt and we pretend we’ve got out shit together, which is, of course another technique get the other to give us what we want. But it ain’t coming..
Then we waste our best years in compensation. We lose other relationships, money, and it costs us so much energy, health and sanity.
Because I’m a highly sensitive empath, I do tend to date men who seem to be on the narcissistic end. I used to watch so many youtube videos about narcissism and it had me furious and feeling totally screwed. All the traits they talked about including gaslighting, flirting and lack of empathy was exactly what I was finding. But here is a thing: the more I knew about narcissism, the more enraged and helpless I felt. Surely, coming from an abusive childhood with unavailable parents, I must be doomed.
When we constantly think about our partners and how wrong they are, there is nobody here for us. We lose all power. We complain how emotionally unavailable and uncommitted they are and don’t see how emotionally unavailable and uncommitted we are to ourselves.
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Most people tell me they don’t need support in creating loving, trusting and lasting relationships. They are fine. It’s their partner who has the problem. We don’t see how we teach others to treat us by giving them too much or too early.
When we lose the stories that keep us in reactivity, we think clearly and drama or boredom vanish. Suddenly, people respond to us completely different. It takes two people to create a dynamic in a relationship but only one to undo it. Be it you.
Are you after a painful breakup, single or looking? Don’t rush into your next relationship!
I can help you to lose the old stories, get clear on what you want, clear the past, and become a highly valued partner by getting your shit together first. When you don’t turn your hidden expectations into powerful agreements, you lose power and desirability. Don’t wait until you are in a relationship again. Now is the best time to create unshakeable foundations. Only then you will recognize your soul mate and create a trusting and supportive relationship from a space of value.
My guidance is for those who want truly loving, trusting and supportive relationships with themselves and others, and wont’ settle for anything else anymore.
Some stories my clients often mistake for truth:
He/she doesn’t care about me
I need to know what to do
It is possible to hurt someone (so I stay small and silent)
Relationships will make me happy
Life is difficult
People reject me and judge me
They need my help
I’m too fat, too ugly or too old
I shouldn’t be so sensitive or emotional
I will always be alone
There is no way out
I am not good enough
There is something wrong with me
I need their love
‘Support and insight that has guided me towards liberation’
Anna Salerno, Nurse
I am the person who works a 12-hour high-stress job. My job is having me constantly on feet and requires me to juggle many hats at a time. My job is literally life and death. Olivia helped me work on one of the aspects of my work that brings my stress level up, people not listening to me and then I feel like a failure when they come back again. She helped me to see my job and my thoughts about people I am caring for in a different light. It opened my eyes to different aspects of those people and myself I hadn’t thought about before. You do amazing work and you don’t know how many people you touch or the moments of peace you bring to others that are so rare in this world. Thank you and God bless you
Daena Weeks, Graphic designer & Musician
Olivia has a wonderful way of inspiring a new perspective and embracing positive growth through the challenges. I feel lighter and more equipped to navigate through the ebb & flow with mindfulness and clarity.
Fidencio Lopez Alvarez, Web Developer and Musician, Puerto Rico
The most I love about Liv is her ability to connect with the suffering of others and her passion and self-giving to relieve that suffering. She was like a huge Sun that enveloped me and lighted me up to connect my self with my own source of light and my heal power to find the truth inside of me. She’s amazing! Thank you Liv Thank you so much for everything.”
Kim Carmen Walsh, Meditation and Hypnotherapy, UK
Liv, you very skillfully helped me find insights into this ‘ongoing’ difficulty that I have with my brother and family. I was surprised to find new aspects of the issue, which I have not previously seen, and the work you did with me on Skype has opened a deeper understanding of the dynamics of my family and how this issue plays out. Because of this renewed clarity, I have felt something lighten and clear internally.
Timothy Kline, Hilo Video Production, CA
Working with Liv really helped me gain clarity and create space around a few personal issues I have been struggling with this year. The session was immensely helpful and helped me genuinely process and work through the struggles. I felt very clear, calm and had a positive direction to move in after. I would highly recommend her and look forward to future sessions!
Jac Jordan, Hawaii
I just had a short 25 minute call with Olivia. She provided me light (yet powerful) guidance into an issue I’ve faced for a couple years now and many other times throughout my life. She basically helped me to find- me. I have the power to change everything in an instant simply by recognizing what I am believing in that moment. I was learning it the slow and hard way but this, this brought it to light and I just… I can’t thank you enough Olivia. What a complicated and yet simple shift.
Tomas Belan, Slovakia
Thank you very much once again for the most lovely massive love, block clearing session ever! You guided my with a compassion, professionalism and friendly attitude straight to the problem and helped me realized my true loving nature! THANKS again!